It’s been one of those weeks. One of those can’t get out of my own way, exhausting, down in the dumps kind of weeks that happen every so often but are a real bummer when they happen in the thick of summer vacation. There’s something in the air, I think. My kids, my three beautiful, mostly happy go lucky kids, are terrors. ALL OF THEM. I think they’re out to get me. They’re certainly out to get each other. I actually broke down and cried after I put them to bed last night. Not because of their behavior- but because of mine. My throat hurt from yelling so much, and I felt defeated. The girls will yell right back at me (which is a problem) and Oliver just crumbles (which is heartbreaking). I’m the first to admit that I suck at parenting sometimes. And this week, I totally suck. (for an example of how much I suck, I’ll sheepishly admit that during one of Abby’s screaming tangents, I actually said “if you don’t stop yelling at me, I’m going to confiscate your voice box!” Talk about empty threats!). Not my best moment of parenting for sure.
I swore to myself that I wouldn’t be one of those bloggers who painted rainbows and butterflies in every post. I’m just telling it like it is, because I know that it will get better. (Just not right now, because I’m taking the 3 of them to the grocery store, and nothing good ever happens when you take all of your kids grocery shopping).
Oh DD! My kids don’t hear a word I say unless it is about five times louder than my regular voice. Honestly… Your children are so lucky to have you! I miss you and can’t wait to see you in a few weeks on the beach!
I am right there with you…well, almost. I only have 2 screaming kiddos to contend with. You are a champion in my book.
We’ve all been there- no one said it would be easy! Things I recommend:
1) hiding in the pantry with a glass of red wine
2) stepping outside to compose yourself
3) vacuuming and pretending you can’t hear them
4) hiding in the pantry with a glass of white wine……see the trend?
These are all reasons why I am NOT a family therapist!
AMEN Sister!! This is a sucky week, but WE don’t suck. Love you. And don’t go to the grocery store with all 3. . . ever.